I've recently been involved in an email thread which, partly by my doing, unfortunately degraded into a dirty flame war for a few hours.
Whenever meta discussion takes over real discussion, frustration builds up inside me. This comic strip from today which a friend just sent me, seems to explain the concept much better than I can.
Order of the Stick: http://www.giantitp.com/comics/oots0595.html
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